Adoption is the creation of a new, permanent relationship between an adoptive parent and child. Once this happens, there is no legal difference between a child who is adopted and a child who is born into a family.
Foster care is a form of “out-of-home” care. Children in out-of-home care may live in relatives' homes, non-family related foster homes, treatment foster homes, or group or residential care.
How to Become an Adoptive or Foster Family
These programs can help you learn more about adoption and foster parenting:
Child support is the monthly monetary payment a court orders a child’s noncustodial parent to pay the parent with primary custody. This helps take care of the child’s needs on a daily basis, from food and housing to clothing and medical needs.
Any parent or person with custody of a child who needs help to establish a child support order from court or to collect support payments can apply through their state for child support services. People who have received assistance under Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF), Medicaid, and federally assisted foster care programs are automatically referred for child support services.
How to Get Child Support
To get help with child support, follow these steps:
If you cannot resolve your child support issue with your local office, this information from the Office of Child Support Enforcement (OCSE) can help you learn how to resolve your problem.
Problems with Noncustodial Parent
In most cases, issues such as non-payment are handled at the state and local level, not by the federal government. If you know the location of a noncustodial parent who may be behind in his or her payments, reach out to the state where the child support case is active.
A divorce decree is an official document from the court that grants the termination of a marriage. It includes specific details of the divorce.
A divorce certificate is issued by a state vital records office. It shows that a divorce occurred but does not state all of the same information as a divorce decree. You can save time and money by determining which document you need before making your request.
Get a Copy of a Divorce Decree
Contact the "county clerk's office" or "clerk of the court" for the county or city in which the divorce was granted.
You can change your name legally by marriage, divorce, a court proceeding, or other means. To change your name in a court, you should check with a local court on the county level to determine the procedures. You can also hire a lawyer to help you with the procedure.
Once you have changed your name, you need to report the change to the federal government.
Tax Information The Internal Revenue Service (IRS) takes name changes from the Social Security Administration and explains why it's important to report any name changes for you or your dependents before you file your next tax return.
Postal Service Report your name change to the local post office that delivers your mail.
For Federal Employees If you are a federal government employee, report your name change to your agency's office of human resources. If you're an annuitant receiving pay from a federal agency, you should report the name change to that agency.
How you want your property, money, assets, and other valuables distributed after you die
If you do not have a will when you die, your estate will be handled in probate court, and your property could be distributed differently from what you would like.
When writing your will, remember:
In most states, you must be 18 or older to create a will.
To be valid, a will must be written when you are of sound judgment and have adequate mental capacity.
The document must clearly state that it is your will. You must name an executor of your will, who will ensure that your estate is distributed according to your wishes.
It is not necessary to notarize or record your will, but doing so can safeguard any claims that it is invalid. For your will to be valid, it must be signed in the presence of at least two witnesses.
A financial will and testament will always supersede a last will and testament when bestowing financial assets.
Some states have community property laws that entitle your surviving legal spouse to keep at least half of your assets after you die, no matter what percentage of your assets you leave them in your will.
It may help to get legal advice when writing a will, particularly when it comes to understanding all of the rules of will execution, estate disposition, guardianship, trusts, beneficiaries, and the inheritance process in your state.
Choose an Executor
An executor is the person who is responsible for settling the estate after your death. In most states, any person over the age of 18 who has not been convicted of a felony can be named executor of a will. Fees for the execution of a will vary according to its complexity.
Duties of an executor include:
Taking inventory of property and belongings
Appraising and distributing assets
Settling debts owed by the deceased
Most importantly, the executor is legally obligated to act in the interests of the deceased, following the wishes stated in the will. It can be helpful to consult an attorney to help with the probate process or offer legal guidance.
Beneficiaries and Inheritance
As you write your will, you need to decide who your beneficiaries will be. These are the people or organizations that you want to inherit your money, property, assets, and other valuables.
Primary beneficiaries are your first choice to receive your assets. You should also consider choosing secondary or contingent beneficiaries. If a primary beneficiary dies before you or does not meet a condition such as age for inheritance, the secondary beneficiary will receive your assets.
A power of attorney document is a legal form that can be used to choose a person you trust to make decisions for you when you can’t. The two most common types of power of attorney documents are for health care and for financial decisions.
A medical power of attorney or medical advanced directive allows you to both specify your wishes for treatment and appoint a trusted person to make decisions about your medical care when you are unable to do so.
A living will is not the same as a medical power of attorney. A living will spells out your wishes for life-extending and emergency medical treatments for medical professionals. They must follow this directive and cannot make decisions for you.
Depending on your state, your spouse may be able to make decisions for you if you do not have a health care power of attorney, proxy, or advance directive. The custodial parent makes decisions for minor children unless an advanced directive or custody agreement says otherwise.
Do I need a lawyer?
You are not required to have a lawyer and can complete all of your paperwork on your own. A lawyer will have expertise in doing this more quickly and helping you make the right choices. Some states require this form to be notarized.
Can I revoke or change it?
You can change your advance directive as long as you are considered to be of sound mind.
What is the role of the individual I’ve chosen?
The individual you’ve chosen will be able to make medical decisions for you if you can’t make them because of illness or injury. Make sure they understand and agree to follow your wishes. Their decisions for you may include:
The use of dialysis
Using artificial breathing machines (ventilators)
Using artificial nutrition (tube feeding) or artificial hydration (intravenous fluids)
Mental crisis treatment such as hospitalization, medications, therapy, and emergency interventions
The use of CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) and other extreme measures
Contact the Department of State for assistance with international advanced directive or power of attorney concerns.
Financial Power of Attorney
What documentation do I need?
You will need to complete a power of attorney form, available from a lawyer or a legal aid office. You can choose how much power to give this person and which of your affairs they can settle.
When is this document required?
You may want to choose someone who can make financial and legal decisions for you and your property when you are unable to due to travel or illness. Be sure this person is trustworthy and capable of handling your affairs. Some reasons you may want to choose a person to act for you include:
Traveling outside the U.S. for an extended period of time
Planning for future illness or injury
Chronic or terminal illness
Inability to guarantee your future mental capacity, as with Alzheimer's disease
Undergoing a major medical procedure that will leave you incapacitated
Do I need a lawyer?
You are not required to have a lawyer, but setting up power of attorney can be a complex process. A lawyer will have expertise in doing this more quickly, explaining the requirements, and explaining your choices so you can be sure your power of attorney is set up exactly the way that you want.
Some states will require your form to be reviewed by a lawyer or notarized.
Can I revoke or change it?
You can revoke or change the terms of a power of attorney document at any time as long as you are of sound mind. Review your power of attorney documents regularly to be sure they’re up-to-date.
What is the role of the individual I’ve chosen?
The person named in a power of attorney to act on your behalf is commonly referred to as your "agent." Your power of attorney document may give this person the ability to:
Make financial decisions on your behalf
Write checks or withdraw money from your account
Open lines of credit on your behalf
Sell or transfer your property and possessions
Settle your debts or enter into new debts on your behalf
Go to court or make legal decisions on your behalf
Make gifts of money, property, or valuables on your behalf
File your tax returns
In most states, you can specify exactly what your agent can and cannot do while acting on your behalf. Your agent may need the notarized, signed official document present to act on your behalf in financial and legal matters.
A trust (or trust fund) is a legal entity that allows a person (the grantor, donor, or settlor) to transfer assets to another person or organization (the trustee). Once the grantor establishes the trust, the trustee controls and manages the assets for the grantor or for another beneficiary—someone who will ultimately benefit from the trust. To help you decide if a trust is right for you, first consult a licensed attorney experienced with estate planning and trust matters.
Reasons to Set Up a Trust
Some common reasons for setting up a trust include:
Providing for minor children or family members who are inexperienced or unable to handle financial matters
Arranging for management of personal assets, if you become unable to handle them yourself
Avoiding probate and immediately transferring assets to beneficiaries upon death
Reducing estate taxes and providing liquid assets to help pay for them
The terms of a will are public while the terms of a trust are not, so privacy makes a trust an appealing option.
Types of Trusts
Trusts can be living (inter vivos) or after-death (testamentary). A living trust is one that a grantor sets up while still alive and an after-death trust is usually established by a will after one’s death. Living trusts can be irrevocable (can’t be changed) or revocable (can be changed), although revocable trusts don’t get the same tax shelter benefits as irrevocable ones do.
The most common type of trust is the revocable living trust. If there’s a specific purpose in mind for the trust, dozens of different options exist (charitable trusts, bypass trusts, spendthrift trusts, and life insurance trusts). Two types of trusts can help pay for long-term care services:
Charitable Remainder Trusts - This trust allows you to use your own assets to pay for long-term care services while contributing to a charity of your choice and reducing your tax burden at the same time. You can set up the trust so that you receive payments from the trust to pay for long-term care services while you are alive.
Medicaid Disability Trusts - These trusts are limited to persons with disabilities who are under age 65 and qualify for public benefits. Parents, grandparents, and legal guardians often set up these trusts to benefit people with disabilities and a non-profit organization manages the assets. This is the only kind of trust that is exempt from rules regarding trusts and Medicaid eligibility.
Trust Scams and Fraud
If someone approaches you to set up a trust, be careful. Before signing any papers to create a living trust, will, or other kind of trust, make sure to explore all options and shop around to compare services. Some other tips to avoid trust scams and fraud include:
Avoid high-pressure sales tactics and high-speed sales pitches.
Stay away from salespeople who give the impression that specific organizations and recognized brands back or sell the trust.
Research and get information about local probate laws from the Clerk or Register of Wills.
If someone tries to sell a living trust to you, ask if they are an attorney. Some states restrict the sale of living trusts to licensed attorneys.
If you buy a trust in your home or in another location that is not the seller's permanent place of business, remember you have the right to take advantage of the Cooling Off Rule and cancel the transaction within three business days.